There are fun secrets that you learn over the span of your life as a sexually active being and if you're a good person, you share them with your community. In times of need, you might resort to your kitchen for what ends up being the best lube of all time, or maybe you realize what you needed all along was just a pair of socks. Sex hacks are just an easy way of saying, “Here are some things that might improve your sex life.”
If you stop being shy and think about it for a second, there are probably many situations which make you excited. Covering your eyes? Tied hands? Or is it a dim light? Whatever that is, when it's about sex, it's more effective than you think. You won't regret it.
Can you guess what the largest sexual organ is? Hint: It’s not the guy’s junk who is driving a yellow hummer with a pair of testicles hanging off the back. It’s your brain! I’m not just saying that because I think all of your minds, values, and autonomous opinions as strong and independent women are important. I’m saying that because it’s true. Desire, fantasies, and the recognition of sexual stimuli all come from your brain and you can use them to trigger an orgasm. Try paying attention to visuals, scents, and scenarios that get you off and make them present during sex. Who knew the Cinnabon-scented candle at Bath and Body Works would have so many uses?
Coconut oil as a multi-purpose, unicorn-like ingredient isn’t a new or revolutionary discovery. But what is new is the realization that the best smelling stuff on earth can also be used during sexy times as an organic, yummy alternative to drugstore lube brands. Not only does it feel, taste, and smell good, but it’s good for you too! It’s moisturizing, antifungal and antibacterial which means it does a great job at preventing yeast infections. Important tip: Don’t use coconut oil (or any oil for that matter) with latex condoms. It’ll weaken the latex and result in tears and breaks.
Microwave it for a few seconds so it’s warm to the touch and use it as a massage oil before sex. Not only will it feel fantastic, but it’ll leave your skin moisturized and delicious.
You already know what they are. Erogenous zones are essentially your sexual pressure points—places on the body with a high concentration of nerve endings that will trigger arousal when stimulated. They’ll make you super horny. Erogenous zones can be anywhere, but some common places are the neck, the ears, the lower back, and the inner thigh. So why is it a sex hack? It’s useful to know that when you kiss someone’s body, you’re not just doing it to tease them. You’re actually enhancing their sexual experience. And if you really want to kill the mood, look deep into their eyes and say, “Stimulate my erogenous zones, baby.”
Who says comfy sex can’t be great sex? If you’re on all fours having sex from behind, stack up some pillows to give your chest a place to rest. It’ll take the weight off of your arms and make you feel like you’re having an orgasm on a pile of clouds.
Ah, the kegel. You probably already know about it, but in case you don’t, the kegel is an exercise used to strengthen the pelvic floor (to identify which muscles to work out, stop your pee midstream. Now do that throughout the day when you’re not peeing!) and they’re important and necessary for numerous reasons even if they seem like a joke. Not only will they strengthen your bladder, but they can also contribute to a stronger, more powerful orgasm!
According to one study, a common complaint amongst people having sex was being cold! So, they gave them socks to wear. Obviously. And guess what? Their orgasms increased by thirty percent. Once people were cozy, they were able to focus on their own sexual climax much better. Who knew it could all be so simple?
You may have never taken sex toys seriously until today, but there is no harm in giving them a chance. If they don't work out, you're free to stop using them and to throw them away. If you can find something that you like, you can bet you'll have super sex!
People who feel confident about their bodies have better, healthier sex. It’s just a fact of life. So compliment each other, point out what you love about your partner’s body, braid their hair, whatever.
Because if you know where everything is, you’ll know how to get around. Nothing is worse than someone who doesn’t know the difference between a clitoris and an elbow.