The success of The Simpsons was its ability to mirror our weaknesses and little triumphs. Unlike real-life family comedy shows at the time, their foibles could get over-the-top at times, something that would be impossible to portray with real actors (Homer’s incessant strangling of Bart, anyone?).
As a husband, Homer is loving but at the same time neglectful of his wife- not in a malicious, two-timing way but more out of stupidity and laziness. He is also quite selfish. There is an episode where for his wife’s birthday, he buys her a bowling ball as a gift- something he intends on using himself. He is also a slave to his basest desires- alcohol and food. Alcohol was something that carried over from his bachelor days, while one suspects that Homer has always been somewhat of a glutton.
As a provider, it is estimated the number of jobs Homer Simpson has held is around 191. He started as an inept power plant technician before getting fired. Ironically, he would get re-hired as the plant’s safety inspector after leading a public protest against the power plant’s hazardous conditions. He has also worked as a monorail conductor, blackjack dealer, celebrity paparazzo, and even a prank monkey. Throughout it all, Homer manages to come through at the end of the day and provide for his family.