Research Reveals Men With Strong Problem-Solving Skills Have Healthier Relationships

20.12.2025 - 18:28

Source: https://nypost.com/2025/12/02/lifestyle/...

The extent to which intelligence can be a determining factor in a relationship has long been a topic of debate. However, a recent scientific study suggests that certain cognitive skills, particularly problem-solving and logical reasoning, may be closely linked with behavioral patterns in romantic relationships. The findings imply that some cognitive competencies may be connected not only with academic or professional success, but also with communication between partners and emotional balance.

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The correlation between intelligence and both academic and professional success has been recognized for quite some time.

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However, a recent study has unveiled a potential link between cognitive abilities and patterns of behavior in romantic relationships. The research conducted by Oakland University indicates that particularly problem-solving and reasoning skills are associated with a more constructive and secure approach in relationships.

Within the scope of the research, 202 heterosexual men aged between 18 and 65, who have been in a relationship for at least six months, were examined.

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The general intelligence and fluid intelligence levels of the participants were assessed using tests composed of letter and number sequences, which measure logical reasoning and pattern recognition skills.

The findings revealed that men with lower levels of general intelligence, and particularly fluid intelligence, were more likely to exhibit behaviors such as insulting their partners, exerting pressure, extreme jealousy, and controlling tendencies. In contrast, men who performed better in these tests were found to possess more advanced skills in perceiving, understanding, and managing emotions.

Researchers underscore that fluid intelligence is closely linked with impulse control, empathy, and effective communication.

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It is suggested that this cognitive competence could play a protective role in handling conflicts in relationships more constructively and avoiding negative behaviors. Moreover, it is noted that in participants showing low cognitive performance, 'cost-inducing' behaviors such as inducing guilt to maintain the relationship, and some psychological problems are reported more frequently.

Another notable point in the study is that men with high fluid intelligence are less likely to criticize their partners based on physical appearance, show excessive jealousy, and experience sexual function problems. These findings indicate that intelligence can be effective not only in cognitive, but also in emotional and behavioral areas.

However, the researchers particularly emphasize that the study is exploratory in nature and limited to male participants only. Consequently, it is stated that the results cannot be generalized and a causal relationship cannot be established. Whether intelligence is the direct cause of healthy relationship behaviors will be clarified in more comprehensive studies to be conducted in the future.