This is not the age of innocence… And if there is one thing that is spoiled the most by the cruelty of our age, it’s probably love. Mind games, unfaithfulness, unwillingness to make an effort because you think it’s not worth it, or simply: fear… We think you should hold on to your truest feelings, though, once you understand why it’s so difficult to embrace them. We came up with 13 reasons we feel defeated when we declare our love before the other person so that it gets easier to figure out what is so damn hurtful about living our life after we declare our love.